you've gotten lots of comments, lots of good ones...i'm just adding mine in case it helps. after over 16 yrs with my significant other, i've probably done things both ways: showering a lot, not having showered recently enough for my usual comfort level...shaving every other day, not having shaved for a week...used wipes to clean up a bit, not used anything and just had fun, etc. i cannot recall EVER having my husband care about any of that. if we're both wanting sex and having sex, he's happy. i think the cleaning/grooming is pretty much for me. i feel fresher, sexier, whatever if i've showered and shaved, but it's not a deal-breaker either way. generally i shower (and wash hair) 1-2 times a day, shave 1-2 times a week, drink lots of water, don't eat anything special.
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after over 16 yrs with my significant other, i've probably done things both ways: showering a lot, not having showered recently enough for my usual comfort level...shaving every other day, not having shaved for a week...used wipes to clean up a bit, not used anything and just had fun, etc. i cannot recall EVER having my husband care about any of that. if we're both wanting sex and having sex, he's happy. i think the cleaning/grooming is pretty much for me. i feel fresher, sexier, whatever if i've showered and shaved, but it's not a deal-breaker either way. generally i shower (and wash hair) 1-2 times a day, shave 1-2 times a week, drink lots of water, don't eat anything special.