I shower somewhere between once per day and once every other day. Maybe more often if I've done something particularly shower-worthy (shaving the dog** comes to mind), maybe less often if I don't find a compelling reason to shower on Day 3. (Usually I do, just given how frequently I exercise and how much I sweat while doing so.) I've never had a partner suggest that I smell, at least not in a way that's a turn-off for sex.

I trim my hair -- leg and pubic -- about once a month or less often. I shave my underarms about once every 1-2 weeks, though I consider that something I do more to avoid public stares at work than because my partner has a preference for it. (He is fine with fuzzy.)

No feminine wipes for me. I'm not sure if it's fragrance or another ingredient in them, but they make my vulva itch and dry it out -- which in turn makes sex uncomfortable (and therefore a non-starter) for me.

I do eat a lot of fruit and drink a lot of water to keep myself hydrated, but that's more for my own general health (especially the hydration) and less for sexycrotchsmells. It can't really hurt, though, so if you're interested in modifying diet to change vulvovaginal smell, I'd very much suggest adding a good amount of water (in terms of drinking it) into the equation.


** That is not a euphemism. I really do mean shaving the dog, who grows hair like a tiny gray sheep.