Thanks! I guess I may nix the wipes idea a lot of people seem to say that they dont use them.

part of my paranoia may come from the fact that I think more than once Ive heard a negative comment from my boyfriend about vaginas. I cant remember the specifics, but I know it was something like, vaginas are weird/ugly (but he added in theyre fun) or something. So I worry about myself. Of course he may have said those things so i wouldnt worry about his expectations.. so who knows. I know he's definitely not gay, i just worry he might be still in the young male stage of a vagina thats too smelly/messy/whatever is 'icky' or whatever lol because he hasnt been with too many woman. Just mostly porn and all that.