I'm self-conscious about my vag as well before sex. I usually shower once everyday anyway, but I've usually always showered before sex. I've only not showered once before sex and I still enjoyed it, but I wouldn't let him go down on me, even though he did and actually got in there, and I let him, but kept waiting for him to look up and scrunch his nose...haha....but he never did...which makes me question his hygiene...haha...but I still stopped him cause I was too self-conscious to let him continue. So I shower, that way I can enjoy all the wonders of sex without worrying. I just use soap down there and rinse really well cause you don't want any residue left over, it might get itchy or whatever.
Also I will not go down on someone who hasn't showered, but I will do everything else. But taht's just me.
From what I've heard and read....most guys don't seem to care much about smells and stuff. I think like anything else we just get self-conscious about our own body, but other people are obvlivious to it.
Maybe instead of showering everyday, if you're feeling self-conscious, you can just use go into the washroom and run a baby wipe through it real quick?
I don't think overwashing your vag can make it get dirtier quicker, unless by overwashing you're drying it out, which can attract make it irritable? I'm just thinking of when my hands get dry, they get kind of itchy and that goes for other parts of my body as well, but my vag seems to be okay with one wash a day.
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I'm self-conscious about my vag as well before sex. I usually shower once everyday anyway, but I've usually always showered before sex. I've only not showered once before sex and I still enjoyed it, but I wouldn't let him go down on me, even though he did and actually got in there, and I let him, but kept waiting for him to look up and scrunch his nose...haha....but he never did...which makes me question his hygiene...haha...but I still stopped him cause I was too self-conscious to let him continue. So I shower, that way I can enjoy all the wonders of sex without worrying. I just use soap down there and rinse really well cause you don't want any residue left over, it might get itchy or whatever.
Also I will not go down on someone who hasn't showered, but I will do everything else. But taht's just me.
From what I've heard and read....most guys don't seem to care much about smells and stuff. I think like anything else we just get self-conscious about our own body, but other people are obvlivious to it.
Maybe instead of showering everyday, if you're feeling self-conscious, you can just use go into the washroom and run a baby wipe through it real quick?
I don't think overwashing your vag can make it get dirtier quicker, unless by overwashing you're drying it out, which can attract make it irritable? I'm just thinking of when my hands get dry, they get kind of itchy and that goes for other parts of my body as well, but my vag seems to be okay with one wash a day.