Thanks, I know maybe I am too sensitive. I understand I shouldnt care so much, and Ill try to be more open, but I am hoping i get some kind of specific advice here about best wipes, or things to eat too etc.
I have once mentioned to my BF I would like if he showered more... sometimes I think it'll be up to 3 days and because hes going to need a shower anyway I think he wants to get intimate so he has more reason to shower...
which slightly frustrates me that he's not being considerate of me. I think his thought process is "I need a shower today. I should get frisky to get it done with, then I can shower!" Rather than how I feel-- I want to be freshly showered and smell nice BEFORE.
I havent been mean about it but it did bother me. Plus I feel like theres more a stigma for people with vaginas... ive heard male friends joke about women smelling there, or jokes on tv/movies about the fish smell and stuff. You never really hear that joke the other way around. So I just dont want my boyfriend to find anything unpleasant about me. We're sexual with it comes to him, but I have not been comfortable enough to do anything with my body, so we're waiting and I just want it to be worth the wait for him lol.
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I have once mentioned to my BF I would like if he showered more... sometimes I think it'll be up to 3 days and because hes going to need a shower anyway I think he wants to get intimate so he has more reason to shower...
which slightly frustrates me that he's not being considerate of me. I think his thought process is "I need a shower today. I should get frisky to get it done with, then I can shower!" Rather than how I feel-- I want to be freshly showered and smell nice BEFORE.
I havent been mean about it but it did bother me. Plus I feel like theres more a stigma for people with vaginas... ive heard male friends joke about women smelling there, or jokes on tv/movies about the fish smell and stuff. You never really hear that joke the other way around. So I just dont want my boyfriend to find anything unpleasant about me. We're sexual with it comes to him, but I have not been comfortable enough to do anything with my body, so we're waiting and I just want it to be worth the wait for him lol.