If my husband and I feel like having sex (and have the opportunity), we do. I've never stopped him because I wasn't clean enough. I bathe every 2-3 days if I'm not getting sweaty during the day.

I've asked him to brush his teeth, but never to wash his genitals in over five years of sex. Are you expecting your partner to do this stuff? Two showers a day plus feminine/masculine wipes?

An adult human usually does have a particular smell. That's okay! You shouldn't have to smell like roses to have sex. Sex doesn't smell like roses. Reasonably clean is fine, but fresh out of the shower is unnecessary for most people.