1 & 2. It's absolutely possible to get the Mirena without ever having been pregnant. In addition to Planned Parenthood, check out your county health clinics or university hospitals.

Sidenote: Essure contains nickel, so it may not be an option for you. Adiana is the nickel-free plug, though it hasn't been around for as long as Essure.

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