Also, I had my first orgasm when I was 19, and it wasn't result of any partnered sexual activity! We had a detachable/massage showerhead that did the trick. And subsequent orgasms came from little vibrators, and then, finally, I learned to let go enough to orgasm during oral. Another key for me was getting extremely turned on BEFORE my partner started going down on me, I find that it's harder for me to orgasm at all if I've already had something *inside* me, so to speak. Very recently I had my first orgasm from clitoral stimulation during PIV, (I'm 22 now), so don't get discouraged :)
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Also, I had my first orgasm when I was 19, and it wasn't result of any partnered sexual activity! We had a detachable/massage showerhead that did the trick. And subsequent orgasms came from little vibrators, and then, finally, I learned to let go enough to orgasm during oral. Another key for me was getting extremely turned on BEFORE my partner started going down on me, I find that it's harder for me to orgasm at all if I've already had something *inside* me, so to speak. Very recently I had my first orgasm from clitoral stimulation during PIV, (I'm 22 now), so don't get discouraged :)