haha...oops by easily, I mean I'm me, and my vag is mine so I can easily go at it whenever....but it's not easy in terms of actually working towards the orgasm, takes about 10-20 minutes, depending on how horny I am and if I'm in the mood to use my toys.

Sure I can show him and I've considered this, though this is where the comfort part plays a factor, in that I worry that each guy is going to react differently to my vag. Yes, how dare I be a VP community member and not bear my vag proudly, but there it is, I am self-conscious and afraid of how guys will react to seeing my vag. Only one of my sexual encounters has seen it closely and that was because we were more than a one-night stand, but not quite a relationship. It's complicated :p

Thanks for the suggestion!