He was never angry, it just depressed him and made him feel like a loser. All I could do was reassure him he wasn't less masculine or a loser. We also looked at books and sites for new ideas and stuff about the body and that showed him that women are a bit more difficult to get off than what porn shows. He thought that every man was getting girls off because of what he saw in porn and his friends bragging that they did but he found out that they have the same problems and they were just lying. I think us just exploring each other, looking at real material with real people and their experiences and him not thinking he has to be a porn star helped. Cause I told him big penis or small penis or no penis, you can't just pound away and expect me to get off. Women need more than that. We are sensual creatures, not pigs rutting.

He actually got me off the other night and didn't want anything in return. How cool is that?!