TY for your input. You may have a point there. When I'm getting her ready and prepping her for it I try to do everything to show her I'm concerned about whats happening to her. She did say it comes off as a little distant, like I'm not enjoying it. I told her that it's not that I'm not enjoying it I'm just trying to be emotionally supportive and not go overboard or... well... scare her by getting to excited.