Sex Issues :(
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vaginapagina21 years old, diagnosed with OCD, anxiety, depression, menorrhagia, Von Willebrands Disease, don't have full-blown orgasms, and had an IUD and d&c done in July.
My boyfriend is 24, no diagnoses, has never finished during any sexual act with me, other than us both pleasuring ourselves at the same time. He finishes when he masturbates. No real signs of him masturbating too hard/too much/etc. He went from everyday (two years ago) to a few times a week (now.
We used to have sex everytime we saw eachother for the first year of our relationship until I began bleeding for about 3 months. After that, my vagina was way too tight and sex hurt. We still tried and it was okay for a while, once every two weeks, then I had my surgery, and now it's been 6 months.
I don't know what's wrong. I'm not always fully aroused, but I like having sex, and foreplay is nice, but I get most aroused when I see my boyfriend enjoying sex. Unfortunately, the last few times we've tried, I go down on him before he goes into me, and he loses his boner due to the enjoyment/feeling of finishing during the blow job.
Today he admitted he gets nervous before sex. I don't know what to do. I'm too young. Am I alone? My friends say that this isn't normal and he needs to get checked out and he's doing everything wrong but I don't think it's anyones fault.
I just keep crying.
My boyfriend is 24, no diagnoses, has never finished during any sexual act with me, other than us both pleasuring ourselves at the same time. He finishes when he masturbates. No real signs of him masturbating too hard/too much/etc. He went from everyday (two years ago) to a few times a week (now.
We used to have sex everytime we saw eachother for the first year of our relationship until I began bleeding for about 3 months. After that, my vagina was way too tight and sex hurt. We still tried and it was okay for a while, once every two weeks, then I had my surgery, and now it's been 6 months.
I don't know what's wrong. I'm not always fully aroused, but I like having sex, and foreplay is nice, but I get most aroused when I see my boyfriend enjoying sex. Unfortunately, the last few times we've tried, I go down on him before he goes into me, and he loses his boner due to the enjoyment/feeling of finishing during the blow job.
Today he admitted he gets nervous before sex. I don't know what to do. I'm too young. Am I alone? My friends say that this isn't normal and he needs to get checked out and he's doing everything wrong but I don't think it's anyones fault.
I just keep crying.
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