My family knows because I came out as bi right after I was married the first time. I don't know if they really took me seriously though, because we never talked about it as I had just written them letters. (Plus there was some other stuff going on besides that.)

I am, again, married to a man now, and don't anticipate any changes to that situation so it's not something anyone else has to confront head on... except when I am vocal about not putting my children into a box. Or when I make comments about women that throw people off.

My family really just ignores it.