I still don't know where "the good stuff" is. It could be in the vagina (then the lump could be your pubic bone or your cervix) or your vulva (then the lump could be your clit).
Your vagina is only the inside part, where tampons go. The outside wet parts are your vulva.
I like intercourse, but I don't usually get off on intercourse all by itself. I need some sort of stimulation on my clit. Being fingered or tongued is much more predictable. But I don't prefer one or the other, I like them both. If I want to get off while I'm having intercourse, I use my finger or a vibrator on my clit.
Are you fairly well aware of your anatomy, like what's there, and why? Do you know what feels good when you masturbate? You could ask him to do similar things. Take it easy on the intercourse, go slowly and take your time. Ask him to stop when it hurts, and try other things for awhile. There's no rush.
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Your vagina is only the inside part, where tampons go. The outside wet parts are your vulva.
I like intercourse, but I don't usually get off on intercourse all by itself. I need some sort of stimulation on my clit. Being fingered or tongued is much more predictable. But I don't prefer one or the other, I like them both. If I want to get off while I'm having intercourse, I use my finger or a vibrator on my clit.
Are you fairly well aware of your anatomy, like what's there, and why? Do you know what feels good when you masturbate? You could ask him to do similar things. Take it easy on the intercourse, go slowly and take your time. Ask him to stop when it hurts, and try other things for awhile. There's no rush.