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Hi all,

As some of you know, there are times when a VP maintainer will post on behalf of someone who'd rather remain anonymous. This is one of them.

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Tori
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SO I recently had sex for the first time. I had expected that the whole time his penis was in there that it would be kinda snug in the walls of my vagina and it would, kinda, tickle...I'm not sure how to explain it.

Anyway, when it was in there, I could only really feel it when it was moving or if it went in really far, then I could feel the end of it.

I was just wondering if this was normal, or if I was a freak of nature

Thanks!

Date: 2010-04-16 01:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] queensugar.livejournal.com
Definitely not a freak of nature!

Anatomically speaking, the vagina itself is actually not a particularly sensitive organ -- there's not a ton of nerve endings much beyond the entrance. (The clitoris, on the other hand, is incredibly rich in nerve endings.)

The cervix can also be quite sensitive (that's near the end of the vagina), and for some people, the small pocket of space just past the cervix can be really sensitive, either in a really good way or a really bad way (I'm in the latter category.)

The cervix itself can be pleasurable when stimulated for some people, and anywhere from uncomfortable to obscenely painful when stimulated for others.

Anyway, what you describe sounds normal to me.

Date: 2010-04-16 10:06 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sand-woman.livejournal.com
Totally normal. Learning how to have sex was, for me, learning how to angle the man so that he is in a position I can feel in useful places. I definitely don't get much out of a non-moving penis, apart from maybe doing kegels around it.

Date: 2010-04-16 11:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] arkeiryn.livejournal.com
Perfectly normal. The only reason I like having my boyfriend's penis just sit in my vagina without moving is because I can feel his penis on both my cervix and at my vagina entrance, and I don't get turned on from it... it's more I like the intimacy of it. Most of the nerves in the vagina are near the entrance (hence why you can't feel tampons etc if you insert them correctly). Different positions feel different, too -- the two obvious ones being doggy style feels totally different from missionary because of the penis coming in at a different angle. So go, explore! Have lots of sex! :P

Date: 2010-04-16 12:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chardonnaydream.livejournal.com
Sounds fairly normal to me. Feels great when it enters, then it tapers off and as it pushes further back, another lovely feeling.

If you flex your muscles (kegels) while he's still inside of you, it gives it an interesting feeling as well. =)

Date: 2010-04-16 04:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] paraxeni.livejournal.com
Another vote for 'normal'! Think of it this way, if the whole length of the vagina had the same density of nerve-endings as the clitoris has then women would die from the sheer magnitude of pain during childbirth. The vagina itself is merely a way for you to get pregnant and give birth, for the "OMG WOW!" feelings then external stimulation is usually the best thing, or very deep thrusting. Experiment, see what works, there's more to sex than penis in vagina.

Date: 2010-04-17 04:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] whatwe-know.livejournal.com
same here. the vag just isn't all that sensitive!!!

Date: 2010-04-20 04:52 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fireaphid.livejournal.com
I just wanted to say that I felt the same way when my partner and I first started experimenting with fingers and toys, and it really surprised me. I guess that porn gave me the expectation that I would just feel ecstasy when anything was in my vagina, but I could have proven myself wrong by thinking for a second about tampons/menstrual cups/sponges before I even experienced any form of penetrative sex. Anyway, sounds normal to me, and as long as you let your partner know what feels good and what isn't exactly stimulating, sex should still be tons of fun, even if it doesn't make you feel like a porn star.

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