Wow. I don't know what to say. I was discussing this with my girlfriend only last night!
I have this problem too. I don't honestly know what to suggest. Only in this relationship (which is fairly new) have I been able to orgasm with a partner. This still leaves the issue though of not being able to on my own. With her, I'll have multiple orgasms which will be amazing and last for ages, but on my own it's the opposite. I suspect I've been dealing with some form of PTSD too, but it's one of those situations that, despite having been in therapy from a very young age, I don't talk about.
I'll be following this closely to see if anyone has any suggestions. :)
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I have this problem too. I don't honestly know what to suggest. Only in this relationship (which is fairly new) have I been able to orgasm with a partner. This still leaves the issue though of not being able to on my own. With her, I'll have multiple orgasms which will be amazing and last for ages, but on my own it's the opposite. I suspect I've been dealing with some form of PTSD too, but it's one of those situations that, despite having been in therapy from a very young age, I don't talk about.
I'll be following this closely to see if anyone has any suggestions. :)