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vaginapagina2008-11-14 05:00 pm
jediashness.livejournal.com) wrote in vaginapagina2008-11-14 05:00 pm
LDR and sex drive?
Hi, everyone!!
My boyfriend is currently studying abroad in Japan, he will be back in December. Total, we will have been apart four months. Before he left, we were HIGHLY sexually active. We had sex nearly every single day for about a year and a half. I figured that when we were apart we would both be going CRAZY over the lack of sex. However, we rarely mention it, and I never really feel particularly "horny" I guess you could say. Every once and a while I will send him a naughty text but that's pretty much it. I guess this is sorta a good thing, since I figured it would be torture this whole time, haha. Now, when we were together, we had sex a lot, but I was never like super horny, ready to jump him at all times. I guess this could have been due to having sex so often.
So I guess my question is, does this sound normal, or did I always have a low sex drive and not notice it because we were actually having sex every day? I have been on Yasmin since I was about 15 (I'm 21 now), and I feel like I was "horny" a lot more often when I was younger, but I also wasn't having as much sex then. I've always been afraid that my sex drive isn't what it could be since I've been on HBC for a long time. I'm just afraid that we will both be used to not having sex when he gets home and I just won't want it. Our sex life was great before he left, and I'd hate for it to dry up when he gets home. =/ It just seems weird to me that we haven't been wanting sex. We can't do phone or webcam sex either because he is living with a host family and has NO privacy, and neither of us really wants to bother trying with that if we don't really need it.
My boyfriend is currently studying abroad in Japan, he will be back in December. Total, we will have been apart four months. Before he left, we were HIGHLY sexually active. We had sex nearly every single day for about a year and a half. I figured that when we were apart we would both be going CRAZY over the lack of sex. However, we rarely mention it, and I never really feel particularly "horny" I guess you could say. Every once and a while I will send him a naughty text but that's pretty much it. I guess this is sorta a good thing, since I figured it would be torture this whole time, haha. Now, when we were together, we had sex a lot, but I was never like super horny, ready to jump him at all times. I guess this could have been due to having sex so often.
So I guess my question is, does this sound normal, or did I always have a low sex drive and not notice it because we were actually having sex every day? I have been on Yasmin since I was about 15 (I'm 21 now), and I feel like I was "horny" a lot more often when I was younger, but I also wasn't having as much sex then. I've always been afraid that my sex drive isn't what it could be since I've been on HBC for a long time. I'm just afraid that we will both be used to not having sex when he gets home and I just won't want it. Our sex life was great before he left, and I'd hate for it to dry up when he gets home. =/ It just seems weird to me that we haven't been wanting sex. We can't do phone or webcam sex either because he is living with a host family and has NO privacy, and neither of us really wants to bother trying with that if we don't really need it.