http://bellekitsune.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] bellekitsune.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] vaginapagina2008-08-13 09:57 pm

First time poster, question about stopping the pill.

So, I have recently realized that I have been on birth control for over 5 years. Non stop. I am considering stopping it for a few months. Just to take a break, you know?
It just feels... wrong to be under the influence of these hormones for SUCH a long time. What is everyone's opinion on this?

Here are a few things to consider in my case:

I am already on a low-hormone pill.
I have a history of bad cramps. The pill helps a bit.
I have had one case of ovarian cysts (that ruptured and so I ended up having emergency surgery). The doctor told me that staying on birth control could help it from happening again, however I was already on birth control when it happened. So that confuses me a bit.

Any opinions would be appreciated :)

[identity profile] frecklestars.livejournal.com 2008-08-14 02:41 am (UTC)(link)
I've also been on hormonal birth control for a long time (seven years) and have never taken a break either (I also have a history of ovarian cysts). My reasons for not doing so:
  • when I'm not on hormones, I can't function for 3-4 days out of the month
  • I have yet to find a condom that doesn't upset my cunt
  • I'm in a committed relationship and not ready for babies
Your reasons, to me, sound plenty good to stay on hormonal bc. I'd seriously consider whether I were feeling guilty because of peer pressure to get off hbc, or whether I had personal uncomfortableness with being on it. The reason I bring this up is because quite a few of my feminist friends are of the opinion that hbc is wrong, messing with your system and such. They have made various snide comments about my use of it, etc, and while I'm sick of hearing it, that's not a valid enough reason for me.

So, weight the pros and cons. Is it worth it to you to have the cramps in order to know your body? Is it worth it to risk cysts getting worse (mine improved greatly after being on hbc; they've put me in the hospital twice previously)? There is a chance they might not, but that chance they might...that's enough of a reason for me. Is it for you?

(Also, please note, I don't mean to make it sound like I think you'd be a total idiot for getting off hbc. I don't think that. Just wanted to point out things that could happen, what-if the situation to death, you know...the usual.)

[identity profile] frecklestars.livejournal.com 2008-08-14 03:02 am (UTC)(link)
My apologies I misunderstood about the cysts; since mine have been around for years and years, I assume they're an ongoing thing and forget some people have better luck. :P I gather that the feminist anti-bc is not a common stance. I've just been...blessed to know such people. heh

If you're experiencing effects, like I said, I'd weigh the pros and cons. Hormonal bc is not good for everyone, so if it's not good for you, do what's better. *hug*
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[personal profile] archangelbeth 2008-08-14 04:38 pm (UTC)(link)
While you're at it -- because this is my pet hobby-horse -- check your thyroid levels (TSH, free T3, and free T4; get the numbers and never trust a verbal "oh, normal"!) and maybe cortisol levels (again, get the numbers; some people ignore "sub-clinical" till it's life-threatening on that stuff, apparently). Constant fatigue has some potential sources that are, indeed, hormonal -- but not HBC hormonal.