vaginapagina | Condom Question and Birth Control! (Reply)

Okay I have two questions, you ladies are always SO helpful!!!!!

1) My boyfriend and I had protected sex last night, we used a condom and he ejaculated in the condom inside of me and pulled out when he was done. I could see the condom was full of cum, it kind of looked like a balloon that was full, I thought maybe we had put it on too far down. There was no breakage or anything, just a reminder to make sure to pinch the tip and leave more air next time. We had sex again this morning and used a condom, this time when he pulled out the condom didnt look like a balloon, it was more deflated and I could clearly see the cum at the tip it just didn't look like it had the night before. He took off the condom and I know he would have noticed if it had broken. I was just a little worried, did it look less full because we had left more air at the top? I'm just super paranoid :(!

2) Because of this paranoia, I've decided I want to start hormonal birth control. I have no idea where to start or what brands are recommended, what are your personal experiences with different types of birth controls, side effects, likes, dislikes, etc.

Thank you so much ladies!!!